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"You burn out and die when choices are made in haste and for reasons of comfort. You ruin your life by choosing the wrong people to sleep in your soul.
Why is there this incessant need for relationships to settle? And perfection? What fucking even is that? Why do we get so worked up with the idea of first becoming somebody's something rather than somebodies? 
God, please, trust me when I tell you that a love born out of a need for convenience, a love that develops from this need to wake up beside someone in winter, a love that feeds our need for attention rather than passion, is not a kind of love that will fill you full of hope at 5am on a freezing cold morning when you roll over and wrap yourself around it. 
Please, please, please, search for the foundations, find the kind of relationship that inspires you, that motivates you to be a better human being, the kind of intimacy never felt before, a rare kind rather than 'right there that you can just touch when needed' kind.
"but I hate loneliness" we often cry. For fuck sake, be goddam alone, make dinner alone, cater to your own needs, sleep alone, take yourself out on a spontaneous date alone and doing this, you will grow, you will learn about yourself,  you'll figure out what inspires you, you will build your own dreams, you'll curate your own beliefs, your own absolute clarity, you'll meet the right kind of people, and when you do meet the person that just makes every cell in your body dance, you'll know because you will be so sure of yourself. 
Wait for it, please, I beg you to wait, to fight for it, to put complete and utter effort into it if you've already found it, because I swear to God, it will be the most beautiful thing your heart will experience. 
Your soul needs this."
-Laurance (who Laurance is we don't know but all credit to him)